Quite possibly one of the biggest sticking points I see in my students when I work with them in the field is they are afraid to sexually escalate.

This is a huge problem because you CANNOT get a girl into bed if you are not escalating!! And here’s the real secret Charming Rogues around the world round know:

It’s far better to OVER-escalate than to UNDER-escalate!!

Now let’s take a look at why this is the case. Say a guy is not escalating. The worst that can happen in the interaction is he will be engaged in a boring conversation that leads to nowhere…In fact, under-escalating almost GUARANTEES this will be the case!

Sure this guy will experience few blowouts or outright rejections, but there is a hidden down-side far worse than having boring conversations: THIS GUY WILL ALMOST CERTAINLY RARELY, IF EVER, GET LAID!!

But let’s take a look at the guy who is over-escalating. Sure on occasion, he will get blown out or rejected (sometimes brutally…I know, I’ve been there!) but often times even if she gets offended by his overtures she will continue the interaction. Read the rest of this entry

In July of 1519 Hernan Cortez burned his ships to ensure his greatly outnumbered forces would be able to conquer the Aztec Empire. There could be no retreat. Cortez’ forces would either defeat the Aztecs or die. With the ships sunk, retreat or desertion was no longer an option for his small fleet of conquistadores.

Historians say that this bold move by Cortez is one of the main reasons Cortez was able to conquer the mighty Aztecs.

The same idea can be applied to apply maximum leverage in your interactions with women: I am going to show you how to pull “The Cortez”. Read the rest of this entry

To truly understand the process of seduction, a working understanding of the theory of Cognitive Dissonance is necessary. Cognitive Dissonance is caused when a person holds two or more conflicting or contradictory beliefs about the self. When this is experienced, it causes a person so much discomfort that they will typically rationalize one belief away. For example, a woman you have approached and attracted suddenly finds herself wanting to go to bed with you, but this conflicts with her idea of being a good girl or at least not a slut.

(Note: The term “slut” is a construct created by women to use as a weapon to lower other women’s social value. I have no misogynistic intentions in using this word. As previously stated, I believe women should be free to engage in any sexual acts she so desires without judgment.) Read the rest of this entry

Hey Guys,

I want to take a moment now to elaborate on dealing with girls with boyfriends. Guys, if you’re like me you want to get the extremely hot girls [HB9+]. The “problem” is these girls are NEVER single. They are always gonna be involved in a ‘relationship’ with someone [or quite often a couple guys]. Now this is where the ethical question comes in….is it cool for you to continue to sarge a girl who happens to be ‘in a relationship’, i.e. has a boyfriend, is married, or whatever… Excluding the situation where the girl happens to be your friend’s girlfriend [this situation brings up a completely different ethical question which I will not be addressing here], her fidelity is a moral question that only SHE can answer. Read the rest of this entry

In order to write about something fresh and different I decided to lift a post from one of the forums and analyze it a bit.  Below is my analysis of a stripper “close”.

Strippers (please call them dancers when you are talking to one!) are an area at which I excel having worked in various Gentlemen’s Clubs here in Vegas.

So let’s get into the analysis (his write-up in black italics, mine in blue).

It all started two days ago. We were in Vegas and decided to explore the world of strip clubs. It was my second time being in strip club – ever. I had no expectations of anything and at no point was I looking for a dance, after all I am a PUA now. We went to the strip club and naturally the only thing that crossed my mind was SARGE. Seeing as how the only pieces of humanity present were horny sweaty men and drop dead gorgeous strippers – my choices were quite limited. So I settled with sarging the strippers.

So far so good, a little condescending but at least you’re out there actually applying your skills.

After several failed attempts to attract I came up to one of the strippers after she gave a lap dance to the man sitting across. I maintained eye contact and after she completed her mission, I came up and said the following. I normally wouldn’t do this but I gotta say that of all the women I’ve dated you are the most beautiful. Unfortunately I cannot allow for myself to get a dance from you. She mentioned how it was her first day, we chatted for a few minutes and I ejected before a kiss. Read the rest of this entry

So if you know anything about my style of game, then you know I really don’t like writing Lay Reports. Why? One of the biggest keys to my game is my insane ability to be super-discreet.

One of the conscious reasons women don’t hook up with as many guys as they want to is because they fear social repercussions and judgment that may occur when they sleep with someone new. Women don’t want to be viewed as a “slut” by their peers.

A guy that can protect her reputation by demonstrating discretion frees her from the shackles of social judgment allowing her to behave just as she pleases.

I learned this at a very young age personally. You see, I was living under circumstances that were similar to what ALL women experience. I grew up in a very small town and raised by religious zealots. If I got caught doing anything “impure” with women, I would be severely punished! I learned early on what women go through on a daily basis. I learned that I had to not “get caught” or else I would pay for my actions.

And to this day, I do everything I can to protect the reputation of all the women I hook up with.

That being said, I realize how informative it can be for you to understand some of the inner mechanics of how SNLs occur and so at your requests, I present you a brief breakdown of last night’s SNL.

Back Story: I’m not hugely into doing online game these days, but it can be very effective. So late 2 nights ago, I decide to send out a few messages on Facebook for shits & giggles. After sending out 3, I get bored and go to sleep. Read the rest of this entry

This is was a fun video to shoot. Nick and Epik (the cameraman) were both sloppy drunk, but having a GOOD time. We did end up with Same Night Lays that night, but not with any of the girls in this clip – so we didn’t blur their faces. These girls are all innocent.

We weren’t planning on releasing this footage, since the audio was a bit fuzzy, and Nick isn’t his best (although as you will see, even when he’s not on top of his game he’s still pretty impressive). We had a lot of requests, however, to see what the ‘snakebite’ looked like, and this was the only thing we had that showed examples. So here you go.

Pay attention to how he slips the five logistical questions into the interaction even while he’s escalating, and how he already starts inoculating against the five objections. Also, towards the end you’ll see Nick politely cockblocked by the Bass player. Since we go to the guy’s show every week (it’s a GREAT bar for Same Night Lays), it was in our best interests not to hit on his married friends in front of him.

As always, we welcome comments below.

Our apologies go out for those who were unable to be on the call because it was full (we even upped the caller limit to 250 and all those spots were taken).  So for those who were unable to get on the call, we wanted to post it here for your listening pleasure.

Topics include:

• Who is Epik and why should you listen to him
• What you can get away with women in the venue
• Pushing the boundaries
• Exceptions to the “Rules“
• Great openers for Same Night Lays
• Explanation of why Cognitive Dissonance can get you laid
• How to use Sexual Framing and what Sexual Frames to set
• Several Sexual Framing Tools for you to use tonight!
• How to use Sexual Languaging to covertly get a woman extremely aroused
• Your Questions Answered!

Listen Here: Sexual Escalation Teleconference mp3

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Leave your comments on it.

Nick Quick & Epik

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You guys have been asking for it.  Here it is!  The “Hot Potato” video.  In it you will see us doing our best attempts at acting out how to actually ask the 5 Logistical Questions.

For some reason the video is choppy. We filmed this spur-of-the-moment with a friend’s video camera, and didn’t realize the corrupted frames until later. Oh well. You can just pretend that we have advanced Parkinson’s and we STILL pick up chicks.

Anyway, we figured that giving concise examples of how to actually screen for logistics was the best way to explain how to do it.

Enjoy!

In case you didn’t get the accompanying pdf on “How To Ask The Logistical Questions,” you can find that here: http://samenightseduction.com/Asking_The_Logistical_Questions-[Examples].pdf

Oh, and feel free to share this with your friends and leave comments…I like comments!

~Nick Quick