I get this question all the time:

“What do I do when the conversation fizzles because I’ve run out of shit to say?”

My typical first instinctual response is to say this is complete and utter horse-shit…Depending on what age you are, you should have that many years of awesome things to talk to women about!

There is also the article I wrote with 5 simple tools you can use any time you run out of things to say.

But I have to admit that this may have been a bit egocentric and idealistic on my part.

You see, I’m a little bit of what my best friend calls, “A complete & utter Fuck-up!”

(Only a really close friend could say something like this about you and not anger you…)

But he may be right.

I am impulsive, I do things on a whim, and I often make life-altering decisions spur of the moment.

Some of these heat of the moment decisions have been great (i.e. quitting my “day job” managing strip clubs to pursue my actual dreams), some of them have been awful (deciding to eat raw oysters from a skeezy street vendor in a dirty neighborhood in Cartagena), but most of them have been bittersweet, with both good and bad stemming from these decisions.

But regardless of the outcome of my whimsical decision, one thing remains constant:

I always have great stories to tell!!

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I hear this one a lot and it is time I lay this one to rest. Your words account for FAR more than the measly 7% of communication that is so often quoted all nimbly-pimbly-like!

I’m not saying that is not important to fix bad body language if you are a habitual sloucher (although one of the best seducers I know slouches…BIG TIME!) or you lean in a lot.  These things will help a little….

…but not nearly as much as setting a strong sexual frame will help!

And this is almost 100% verbal!

Still don’t believe me? Watch this short video for a thorough debunking of this common misconception:

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Here’s the view from the room of the lucky guy chosen to join Epik & I for for a month of serious Same Night Seduction Training in Colombia:

email me if you are interested in applying: nickquick (at) SameNightSeduction (dot) com

I recently had a few messages sent to my inbox asking how I was able to hook up with so many hot girls in Colombia (11 in my first month)…even though I know very little Spanish (only 2 of them spoke a little English).

The short answer would be that “i’m just that good!”, but that would be being a bit facetious and would not be particularly helpful for anyone reading this.

So I’m going to give a few of the strategies I used to seduce these women with my limited Spanish speaking ability.

The first thing to note is that EVERYTHING would be much, much easier if I were to be able to speak Spanish, so if you are interested in banging South American women (and let me state the totally obvious:  The women of Colombia are incredibly sexy!), LEARN SPANISH!! Read the rest of this entry