Nick and I wanted to take a little time off from chasing tail in San Jose, Costa Rica in order to talk about common mistakes we see guys make… and how those mistakes are the same ones the world over. Also discussed – why you should sexually escalate, how being internally turned on while escalating makes you creepy, and that you should jump through every escalation window a woman gives you.

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A word from NICK QUICK:

Last night I got a good local tip from one of Epik’s Costa Rican Girlfriends on a great “local” hot spot.

But there is one serious “problem”: I don’t speak spanish!

Sure, in a lot of the touristy spots English is commonly spoken…but not in this bar!

But I am determined to have a great night all the same.

So I have her translate a few of my favorite “filthy” openers and other random dirty lines into Spanish.

She thinks I’m crazy if I say these things. She laughed and said there was ´no way´ any girl would like a guy who said these things… but I know better!

She´s giggling and laughing out loud while translating things like:

“I’m just a single guy looking to get laid tonight…who should I be talking to?”

and

“You look like a really nice girl, but I detect a serious naughty side…”

and

“I don’t speak spanish, but I have a big dick…”

(For more ways to be dirty, filthy, and the man who can get the girl in the sack the same night you meet, look no further than my audio course: “Secrets of Same Night Lays”. Get it here: http://SameNightSeduction.com/sosnl/)

I write these and 3 other gems on little pieces of paper and get in a taxi to make the journey to this local hot-spot (and to give Epik & his girl some “alone time” in our hotel room).

I arrive, just how I like doing things… Out in a hot night club, meeting copious amounts of sexy women, no wing necessary!

This bar is rocking! The music is amazing but the women are even more amazing. I am falling in serious LUST with several of them.

TIME TO APPROACH!!

I start approaching using the spanish translation of the first line mentioned above.

Are these girls going to respond? Am I gonna get slapped across the face? Will I get a drink thrown in my face?

NO!

Every one of these interactions opened up perfectly with the girls giggling, punching me on the shoulder playfully, and pointing at their naughty friend.

There was a bit of a communication barrier after using these but because I was setting the sexual frame early, I was able to escalate effortlessly without knowing any spanish.

This is the power of setting sexual frames early!!

Each girl I talked to flirted with me back in her native tongue and although I have no idea what they were saying nor did she likely have any clue what I was saying, the kino escalation was on!

As expected, I left with a girl to a strip club (who wanted to get up on stage so badly she took her bra off right there in the club), then extracted back to my hotel.

(Granted, this girl spoke some English but would hardly be considered fluent!)

So there you have it!  Not only is it possible to seduce women without knowing their language, but setting strong sexual frames works…regardless of where you are in the world.

Epik and I will be returning home soon and back to doing more Live, Infield Training in Las Vegas, but as has been mentioned many times before, our days of doing infield coaching are numbered and it will all come to an end in under 2 months.

If you truly want to master the art of pulling consistent Same Night Lays, procrastinate no longer!!

Book your Live, Infield training now while you still can.  Just sign up here: http://samenightseduction.com/blog/signup/

And you too can get these kinds of results…regardless of locations, language, or culture!

Get Out There!

- Nick Quick

PS… A word from Epik:

I can´t tell you how many guys have told us “You´re so lucky to live in Las Vegas where your SNL method works. Girls there are easy. The girls in X are way more uptight/conservative/like to wait/etc.” I´m here to tell you that the things that Nick and I teach work the world over. I´ve personally had SNLs in Bulgaria, England, France, Moldovia, The Ukraine, Morocco, Afghanistan, Utah, California, Florida, and a few others. (Oh yeah, Costa Rica. And our students have returned home after bootcamps and added a helluva lot more countries/cultures to the “works here, too” list.

Not to burst your bubble, but I can guarantee some of those places are tougher than whatever your game hometown is. When a girl can go to jail for walking down the street holding hands with a foreigner (Morocco), imagine how tough it is to get them to sneak into your hotel room (if the hotel owners see know of an unmarried couple in their establishment they´re required by law to call the police).

Sure, there are differences and tweaks you need to give your game in different cultures. But overall, don´t trust anyone that tells you that girls are ´easier´ somewhere else. If you have the right skills, then the bar two blocks from your house can be just as lucrative as [insert name of whatever city you´ve heard is full of ´easy´ women].

So here´s the shameless plug:  Time is running out for Live Training with Same Night Seduction (again, after April we most likely won´t do any more).  Book your program now! Just click on the following link: http://samenightseduction.com/blog/signup/

-Epíkouros

Epik & I had a chance to sit down with the team from The Social Man and talk about some of their recent developments in the game. I thought you might be interested in our conversation so we made a video.

In the video, we talked about:

• the ‘foundation and scaffolding’ necessary to get women investing in YOU (not just theory, some techniques as well),
• What guys who get laid a lot talk like,
• how to become high value in her eyes,
• the release of “Unbreakable“
• the mentality you need that will allow you to use the infamous “Hand On Cock” Routine
• and much more!

Enjoy!

To Check Out “Unbreakable”, a program that gets the “SNS Seal of Approval” (not freely given I might add!) CLICK HERE

• Why Sexual Anxiety may be killing your game!
• How being good in the sack will make you more comfortable with escalating
• Tricks to help you last longer
• Taoist methods of pleasure sure to make her think you are the greatest lover she has ever had
• How to get her to do anal
• How to have Male Multiple Orgasms (yes they are possible!! For more info on how CLICK HERE)
• Why we are raising our prices on bootcamps (Reserve Your Bootcamp Now)
• And much more!

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We are especially excited to release this episode because in it I discuss some of the basics you need to know on how to seduce a stripper.

Here’s the deal. There is some advice out the on stripper game and I am here to tell you: MOST OF IT IS HORSE-SHIT!!

Seriously…Chances are if you have read some stuff on how to seduce a stripper it was less than accurate or misguided at best.

As a former Gentlemen’s Club Manager for some of the hottest Strip Clubs in Las Vegas, Nick will set you straight.

Also, since we have been getting a lot of questions on fashion, we will set the record straight on this too!

(Hint: “Peacocking” is dead!!!)

And of course we answer your questions…Enjoy!
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Alternate Title: “How To Get Laid By Simply Saying “Hello”

Here is a concept that few, if any school of seduction is teaching.

Overall, you want to be putting less into the interaction, not more!

I know, I know…you’ve always heard that you need to “enter the set with slightly higher energy” and you need to “demonstrate higher value”.

I’m not saying these are not effective strategies…but I do wish to suggest that they are NOT the most effective strategies over the course of an interaction.

Reason: Cognitive Dissonance! (For more on Cognitive Dissonance CLICK HERE)

If you enter a set with low energy and just hold it, any effort on her part she is going to have to backwards rationalize as her really liking you. Why else would she be putting so much effort & energy into the interaction if she didn’t!?

The key to doing this is to give the girl just enough to bait her to invest in the interaction.

Here’s an example: When you approach the girl you open with nothing more than “Hey” or “Hello”. That’s right! You just say that one word and stand there till she responds.

I know it doesn’t sound elegant or profound, but it is effective. Any energy she puts back into the interaction given that you didn’t put much in in the first place she is going to have to be backwards rationalized as her liking you.

And the earlier you start this trend, the more effective it will be in the interaction.

Now you may be asking yourself, “If it truly were that easy, why don’t more guys do this!?”

Well, you’d be surprised how many guys actually do do this. “Naturals” open like this all the time!

The problem is, most guys can’t handle the tension that is built up after you use such a low energy opener. In order to pull this off, you have to be able to look at her and hold it until she responds….and this is often uncomfortable for most guys.

Often it will take a woman a bit longer to respond to that kind of opener and there will be a few moments of “uncomfortable” silence.

Can you handle this??

If you can, you will be rewarded with increased sexual tension between the two of you.

You see, just by virtue of her being a woman and you being a man, there is already a natural sexual tension. But most guys break that tension by not being able to handle experiencing it.

Be calm, be cool, be collected. Handling that tension will be far more effective for getting her in the sack than any amount of trying to display value or lowering her value.

Get her working for you!

~Nick Quick

We go over how Epik has been using PlentyOfFish.com, MySpace, Facebook, etc to get lots of hot action.

Also covered:

• Straw man technique
• AMOGging
• Less is more
• Marketing vs. Pickup
• And much, much more…

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In this episode, We talked about how to get GOOD at Same Night Lays, the moral stance of hooking up with Married/Engaged/Boyfriended girls, how to give the “Lollipop Kiss,” and answer a LOT of questions from guys about their specific sticking points, and examples of openers and ‘routines’ we like to do. Read the rest of this entry

Quite possibly one of the biggest sticking points I see in my students when I work with them in the field is they are afraid to sexually escalate.

This is a huge problem because you CANNOT get a girl into bed if you are not escalating!! And here’s the real secret Charming Rogues around the world round know:

It’s far better to OVER-escalate than to UNDER-escalate!!

Now let’s take a look at why this is the case. Say a guy is not escalating. The worst that can happen in the interaction is he will be engaged in a boring conversation that leads to nowhere…In fact, under-escalating almost GUARANTEES this will be the case!

Sure this guy will experience few blowouts or outright rejections, but there is a hidden down-side far worse than having boring conversations: THIS GUY WILL ALMOST CERTAINLY RARELY, IF EVER, GET LAID!!

But let’s take a look at the guy who is over-escalating. Sure on occasion, he will get blown out or rejected (sometimes brutally…I know, I’ve been there!) but often times even if she gets offended by his overtures she will continue the interaction. Read the rest of this entry