Alternate Title: “How To Get Laid By Simply Saying “Hello”

Here is a concept that few, if any school of seduction is teaching.

Overall, you want to be putting less into the interaction, not more!

I know, I know…you’ve always heard that you need to “enter the set with slightly higher energy” and you need to “demonstrate higher value”.

I’m not saying these are not effective strategies…but I do wish to suggest that they are NOT the most effective strategies over the course of an interaction.

Reason: Cognitive Dissonance! (For more on Cognitive Dissonance CLICK HERE)

If you enter a set with low energy and just hold it, any effort on her part she is going to have to backwards rationalize as her really liking you. Why else would she be putting so much effort & energy into the interaction if she didn’t!?

The key to doing this is to give the girl just enough to bait her to invest in the interaction.

Here’s an example: When you approach the girl you open with nothing more than “Hey” or “Hello”. That’s right! You just say that one word and stand there till she responds.

I know it doesn’t sound elegant or profound, but it is effective. Any energy she puts back into the interaction given that you didn’t put much in in the first place she is going to have to be backwards rationalized as her liking you.

And the earlier you start this trend, the more effective it will be in the interaction.

Now you may be asking yourself, “If it truly were that easy, why don’t more guys do this!?”

Well, you’d be surprised how many guys actually do do this. “Naturals” open like this all the time!

The problem is, most guys can’t handle the tension that is built up after you use such a low energy opener. In order to pull this off, you have to be able to look at her and hold it until she responds….and this is often uncomfortable for most guys.

Often it will take a woman a bit longer to respond to that kind of opener and there will be a few moments of “uncomfortable” silence.

Can you handle this??

If you can, you will be rewarded with increased sexual tension between the two of you.

You see, just by virtue of her being a woman and you being a man, there is already a natural sexual tension. But most guys break that tension by not being able to handle experiencing it.

Be calm, be cool, be collected. Handling that tension will be far more effective for getting her in the sack than any amount of trying to display value or lowering her value.

Get her working for you!

~Nick Quick