Want to go out tonight but you don’t have a wing? Is your wing constantly fucking your interactions up??

Forget him!

Start “Flyin’ Solo”!!

In this video, we tell you just how to do it!

(There are a few shameless plugs at the beginning that you may just be interested in…then we lay the expert “flyin’ solo” advice on you!)
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If you’re like a lot of guys who are going out trying to incorporate the Same Night Seduction approach to getting girls into your bed one of the most frustrating experiences is having a girl you like not go home with you at the end of the night.

This sucks!!

And we want to do something about that!!

So we focused the following episode of SNS TV (Be sure to tune in EVERY TUESDAY at 5pm Pacific Standard Time for more episodes of SNS TV: http://ustream.tv/channel/Same-Night-Seduction) on “Pulling The Trigger”.

The key to making this happen is just grabbing the girl by the hand and pulling her out of the bar when you are in “The Green Zone”.

Don’t know what The Green Zone is? Unfamiliar with the “S&L Matrix”??

The following video will explain these concepts and by applying these tactics you will be able to get her out of the bar and in your bed every time! Read the rest of this entry

A reader sent in the following question and I thought I would take a brief moment to respond to it.

J.N. writes:

“I know you HAVE to touch to get sexual and sex, Especially a Same Night Lay. I know there is a process like first hands, shoulders then back and hips etc. But how do you get to her breasts, butt, inner thigh, kissing etc. So if you could explain this to me it would help me A LOT.”

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We are especially excited to release this episode because in it I discuss some of the basics you need to know on how to seduce a stripper.

Here’s the deal. There is some advice out the on stripper game and I am here to tell you: MOST OF IT IS HORSE-SHIT!!

Seriously…Chances are if you have read some stuff on how to seduce a stripper it was less than accurate or misguided at best.

As a former Gentlemen’s Club Manager for some of the hottest Strip Clubs in Las Vegas, Nick will set you straight.

Also, since we have been getting a lot of questions on fashion, we will set the record straight on this too!

(Hint: “Peacocking” is dead!!!)

And of course we answer your questions…Enjoy!
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Alternate Title: “How To Get Laid By Simply Saying “Hello”

Here is a concept that few, if any school of seduction is teaching.

Overall, you want to be putting less into the interaction, not more!

I know, I know…you’ve always heard that you need to “enter the set with slightly higher energy” and you need to “demonstrate higher value”.

I’m not saying these are not effective strategies…but I do wish to suggest that they are NOT the most effective strategies over the course of an interaction.

Reason: Cognitive Dissonance! (For more on Cognitive Dissonance CLICK HERE)

If you enter a set with low energy and just hold it, any effort on her part she is going to have to backwards rationalize as her really liking you. Why else would she be putting so much effort & energy into the interaction if she didn’t!?

The key to doing this is to give the girl just enough to bait her to invest in the interaction.

Here’s an example: When you approach the girl you open with nothing more than “Hey” or “Hello”. That’s right! You just say that one word and stand there till she responds.

I know it doesn’t sound elegant or profound, but it is effective. Any energy she puts back into the interaction given that you didn’t put much in in the first place she is going to have to be backwards rationalized as her liking you.

And the earlier you start this trend, the more effective it will be in the interaction.

Now you may be asking yourself, “If it truly were that easy, why don’t more guys do this!?”

Well, you’d be surprised how many guys actually do do this. “Naturals” open like this all the time!

The problem is, most guys can’t handle the tension that is built up after you use such a low energy opener. In order to pull this off, you have to be able to look at her and hold it until she responds….and this is often uncomfortable for most guys.

Often it will take a woman a bit longer to respond to that kind of opener and there will be a few moments of “uncomfortable” silence.

Can you handle this??

If you can, you will be rewarded with increased sexual tension between the two of you.

You see, just by virtue of her being a woman and you being a man, there is already a natural sexual tension. But most guys break that tension by not being able to handle experiencing it.

Be calm, be cool, be collected. Handling that tension will be far more effective for getting her in the sack than any amount of trying to display value or lowering her value.

Get her working for you!

~Nick Quick

We go over how Epik has been using PlentyOfFish.com, MySpace, Facebook, etc to get lots of hot action.

Also covered:

• Straw man technique
• AMOGging
• Less is more
• Marketing vs. Pickup
• And much, much more…

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In this episode, We talked about how to get GOOD at Same Night Lays, the moral stance of hooking up with Married/Engaged/Boyfriended girls, how to give the “Lollipop Kiss,” and answer a LOT of questions from guys about their specific sticking points, and examples of openers and ‘routines’ we like to do. Read the rest of this entry

Quite possibly one of the biggest sticking points I see in my students when I work with them in the field is they are afraid to sexually escalate.

This is a huge problem because you CANNOT get a girl into bed if you are not escalating!! And here’s the real secret Charming Rogues around the world round know:

It’s far better to OVER-escalate than to UNDER-escalate!!

Now let’s take a look at why this is the case. Say a guy is not escalating. The worst that can happen in the interaction is he will be engaged in a boring conversation that leads to nowhere…In fact, under-escalating almost GUARANTEES this will be the case!

Sure this guy will experience few blowouts or outright rejections, but there is a hidden down-side far worse than having boring conversations: THIS GUY WILL ALMOST CERTAINLY RARELY, IF EVER, GET LAID!!

But let’s take a look at the guy who is over-escalating. Sure on occasion, he will get blown out or rejected (sometimes brutally…I know, I’ve been there!) but often times even if she gets offended by his overtures she will continue the interaction. Read the rest of this entry

To truly understand the process of seduction, a working understanding of the theory of Cognitive Dissonance is necessary. Cognitive Dissonance is caused when a person holds two or more conflicting or contradictory beliefs about the self. When this is experienced, it causes a person so much discomfort that they will typically rationalize one belief away. For example, a woman you have approached and attracted suddenly finds herself wanting to go to bed with you, but this conflicts with her idea of being a good girl or at least not a slut.

(Note: The term “slut” is a construct created by women to use as a weapon to lower other women’s social value. I have no misogynistic intentions in using this word. As previously stated, I believe women should be free to engage in any sexual acts she so desires without judgment.) Read the rest of this entry